There Is Room for All of Us

Yesterday, I had the opportunity to attend an event hosted by my Congresswoman, Representative LaMonica McIver. Like so many others in the room, I wanted to stop by, say hello, and maybe ask for a quick photo before the program began, especially since the special guest was Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett.

I hesitated.

As someone who spends much of my time serving the public, I know how busy these moments can be. It can be overwhelming sometimes. I didn't want to interrupt or take away from the event, but I wanted to say hello to my Congresswoman and let her know that I was here to support her, despite the rain and delays. 

But before I could even decide whether to ask, Congresswoman McIver noticed me. She smiled, told me to wait because I would be her last photo before the program started, and then did something I'll never forget.

She introduced me to Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett.

It was a simple gesture, but one that spoke volumes.

In a world that often tells women—especially Black women—that there is only room for one of us at the table, moments like these remind us of a different truth, a view I have always held: there is room for all of us.

Real leadership isn't about protecting your spotlight. It's about opening the door for someone else. It's about making introductions, sharing opportunities, offering encouragement, and reminding the next generation that they belong in every room they enter. Real leaders aren’t afraid to help; in fact, they embrace opening doors as creating a legacy. 

Congresswoman McIver didn't have to pause before taking the stage. She didn't have to make the introduction. But she did. That act of generosity is the kind of leadership that leaves a lasting impression.

Too often, the narrative surrounding ambitious women, especially Black womenlarge, is one of competition. My experience yesterday was the exact opposite. It was a powerful reminder that when Black women support one another, we don't diminish our own light—we multiply it.

As I continue my own journey of public service, I hope to continue to lead the same way: by lifting others, making room at the table, and ensuring that the next woman who walks into the room knows she belongs there. I know that what God has for me is for ME, and what God has for my sister, friend, colleague, mentor, or mentee, is for them. There is room for all of us.

Real success is never about being the only one. It's about making sure you're not the last.